译介: Fight Style-Eddie Abasolo
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Jan 2, 2024
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心态
格斗
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The only thing we're promised in a fight is one we're gonna miss, two we're gonna get hit it's just our job to minimize those things as much as possible.
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The only thing we're promised in a fight is one we're gonna miss, two we're gonna get hit it's just our job to minimize those things as much as possible.We always have a plan but the plan always needs to be tweaked in the moment and life is the same thing, you know everything is referred to as a fight no matter what we do in life. In fighting, it's about making adjustments, it's about composure, it's about knowing you're gonna get hit and knowing you're gonna miss. It's about taking that L and bouncing back from it, having it make you stronger.A lot of things that I learned from Muay Thai continue to push me in life. Fighting is all about adjustments. If we learn how to make adjustments in life the same way we do in fighting, we can learn to be just as composed in life. In the same ways, we should be composing fighting through repetition. We hit failure every time, and that could be discouraging, but if we look at it like yeah we hit failure but we fail closer to success every time, it gives us a little bit more confidence to fail again and to continue to not get discouraged. There's plenty of times where I wanted to quit when I felt like my passion was lost, and now look where I am with the accomplishments that I have, the relationships that I built with certain people. I never would have seen these relationships had I quit a long time ago. So when I look at it like that, it makes me wonder man what's waiting for me later on down the road if I stick with it, if I don't quit. What other relationships can I obtain? What other achievements can I make? And who else can I inspire just by holding on just a little bit longer?When our deficiencies are surfaced and we have to face them, I feel like that's the true test.
翻译:
在格斗中,我们唯一能保证的是我们会错过一些机会,会受到打击,我们的能做的就是尽量减少这些事情发生的次数。
我们总是有计划,但计划总是需要在当下进行调整,生活也是一样的道理,你知道无论我们在生活中做什么,一切都被称为一场格斗。在格斗中,关键在于做出调整,保持镇定,明白你会受到打击并且会错失机会。关键在于接受失败并从中反弹,让失败让你变得更加坚强。
从泰拳中学到的很多东西继续推动着我前进。格斗关乎调整,如果我们学会如何在生活中做出调整,就像我们在格斗中那样,我们也能学会在生活中保持同样的镇定。同样地,我们应该通过不断重复来保持在格斗中的镇定。我们每次都会失败,这可能会让人感到沮丧,但如果我们看待它就像是我们虽然失败了,但每次都更接近成功,这会让我们更有信心再次失败,并且继续前进而不气馁。有很多时候我想要放弃,当我感到我的激情消失时,但现在看看我取得了什么成就,建立了与某些人的关系。如果我很久以前放弃了,我就永远不会有这些人际关系。所以当我这样看待它时,我在想,如果我坚持下去,不放弃,未来路上还有什么在等着我呢?我能获得什么其他的人际关系?我能取得什么其他的成就?我还能通过坚持一段时间而激励到谁?
当我们的不足被暴露出来,我们不得不面对它们时,我觉得那才是真正的考验。